Falling in Love with a Believer or a Non-Believer

Falling in Love with a Believer or a Non-Believer

pick me cartoon by nakedpastor david hayward

Description: A woman stands between two men. One man says, “Pick me! I might be an asshole but at least I’m a believer!” The other says, “I may not be a believer but I promise to treat you right and spend the rest of my life learning how to love you.” She looks endearingly towards the guy on the right.


I’ve helped many believers who love a non-believer follow through and get married. They’re happy.

Love is greater than faith.

I would rather my kids be loved by someone who made them happy.

I wish the same for you.

There’s nothing wrong with being happy, turned on, passionate, attractive, attracted, and free!

You may experience this in a polarized relationship because of your different beliefs. Polarization is an important factor in creating energy in a relationship. Just like a battery is powered by a negative and positive pole, so is your relationship.

Lisa and I are different. This is not a turn-off. She drives me wild! She has turned me on ever since the day I laid eyes on her and the first time we spoke. 

You might say we are on the same page. But that’s only because our “page” has grown to fill the entire universe instead of being a little sticky note. 

We’ve grown. The polarization is there, like the north and south poles of a world, which makes our love exciting.

If you love someone different than you, it could be the real deal. 

Also, if you’re in a relationship where you started out the same and one or both of you is changing, this can be alchemized into a passionate relationship. I know. Been there!

Don’t let beliefs get in the way of love.

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