Platitudes are like an air-borne virus that threatens to infect us.
We need to understand this virus. We must protect ourselves against it.
Once you've learned how to detect it, it's easy after that. You build an immune system that will defend you.
But look out... once you have the virus it overtakes you rapidly and you will tend to infect others very quickly.
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