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"Since marrying grace in 1992, I have had the privilege of pastoring literally thousands and thousands of single young men. many of them have asked me, ‚ÄúWhat does your wife do?‚Äù I tell them that although she has a degree in public relations and had a good job at a large media company, she got off the corporate ladder to stay at home as a wife and mother. They often then ask curiously, ‚ÄúHow did you get her to do that?‚Äù as if we arm-wrestled and I won, thereby permitting me to tell her what to do for the rest of her life. I explain to them that I did not ‚Äúmake‚Äù my wife do anything. Instead, I simply married a woman who agreed with me about the beauty of raising a family, because it was much easier than fighting."It was much easier than fighting. That's the key. He didn't verbally make her stay home. He didn't have to convince her. Driscoll intentionally married a woman who wouldn't bother fighting with him and would fulfill his expectations of what a woman, wife and mother ought to do. There are people who are a part of my community who have been under the Driscoll regime and they would agree that silence is key to the success of the operation. Especially for women. I suggest there can only be two explanations for how this is happening: