this seems to be the popular strategy for surviving accusations of abuse
"Strategy for Surviving Abuse Accusations" by nakedpastor David Hayward
All of these seem very true these days.
I do believe M.L. King Jr. that the arc of the universe is towards justice. But it sure does seem to take a long time sometimes.
It is also very difficult to watch bullies and abusers continue on as if nothing happened, leaving victims in their wake.
Pressing on is all I can do, believing in the manifestation of this justice.