
- The are unaware of their attitudes and behaviors and their effects.
- They are aware but they think you deserve it.
- They hope that when they are nice to you, you will open the door for them to violate you.
- They know if they were totally violating all the time they would be challenged.
- They believe violating you is their divine or ideological right and even responsibility.
- They actually do have nice qualities, like we all do, but also nasty ones.
- They think their actions are just slip-ups to be forgiven and forgotten.
- Their unconscious guilt motivates them to be nice to try to make up.
- This is more rare, but they just enjoy violating you.