"Deconstruction and Marriage" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

The Deconstruction of Your Beliefs and Your Marriage

BUY A PRINT OF THIS CARTOON The Deconstruction of Your Beliefs and Your Marriage One of the most difficult challenges I ever undertook was to deconstruct my beliefs and stay married. Honestly, there were many times Lisa and I didn’t think we were going to make it. But we did.…

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Sophia "Might" drawing by nakedpastor David Hayward

50% OFF Sophia Sale Until August 15!

GET YOUR FAVORITE SOPHIA TODAY!Use coupon “BEAUTIFUL” for 50% OFFAn online friend of mine has cancer. We’ve chatted back and forth. I know Sophia has brought liberty as well as comfort to a lot of people. Especially women. I told her I wanted to send her something, so I’m sending…

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"No Agenda" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

Advice on Making Friends after Leaving the Church

GET A PRINT OF THIS CARTOON When we leave the church, one of the hardest things to do is build new relationships. Because you will probably lose most if not all of the friends you had. I’ve been through it, learned a lot, and want to share some advice with…

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"Find Lose" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

Finding Yourself but Losing Your Friends

I was fortunate to find churches in which I felt I had room to change and grow. However, inevitably, I discovered that I would change and grow beyond the box of their comfort zone. When you change, so do your relationships. You may lose friends. You may even lose family.…

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"Bigger Carpet" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

10 Reasons Why the Church is the Perfect Culture for Abuse

In spite of the protests I get nearly every day that my focus on abuse in the church is unbalanced and unnecessary because it’s so rare, I continue to address it because millions of people are recipients of spiritual abuse at the hands of their spiritual leaders and their churches.…

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"Not All Churches" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

When People Say, “Not All Churches!”

My posts about spiritual abuse often get reactions from people claiming that I’m needlessly and bitterly highlighting an infrequent and isolated problem in the church. They are usually angry and defensive. They say things like: “You’re crying out like a wounded animal! Get over your bitterness.” “How dare you attack…

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"The Love Trap" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

Community and Orgasms

(I drew this cartoon, originally, way back in 2010. I saw a picture of a Burning Man installation that I think used this idea. Prints are available.) The following is a letter I wrote to my online community, The Lasting Supper. I get way more vulnerable and personal with them,…

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"The Bible Can Hurt" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

The Bible Can Hurt

It takes maturity to realize and admit that something you love and value so highly can deliver good and inflict harm, both. The bible is not good and it is not evil. It is neutral. We have to realize this in order to appreciate and use it properly. I want…

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"These Believers are Crazy!" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

Embracing Your Believing Past

I give weekly messages to my amazing online community, The Lasting Supper. What an incredible collection of people. Why not join us HERE. One of the messages I gave them was about accepting, embracing, and integrating our former selves. I’m going to share it with you here: I do not…

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"More Like Jesus" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

There’s a Reason Why You Experience Life as a Cross

Yes, this is an older cartoon, but a favorite. I’m sharing it again. You can get the original or prints HERE. You know, I should compile a new book on the 100 best of nakedpastor and why I drew them. I’ve been cartooning since 2006 so it would be a…

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