"Find Lose" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

Finding Yourself but Losing Your Friends

I was fortunate to find churches in which I felt I had room to change and grow. However, inevitably, I discovered that I would change and grow beyond the box of their comfort zone. When you change, so do your relationships. You may lose friends. You may even lose family.…

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"How Change Begins" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

How Change Begins!

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"Judgmentalism and Change" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

Judgmentalism and Change

I carry my future self within me. I also carry my former self within me. I love both of them. Download my eBook “Money is Spiritual” for just $10!

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"Bend a Little" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

Questions as a Change Agent

[BUY THIS CARTOON… ORIGINAL or PRINT!] My book Questions are the Answer describes my journey through questions. Many people are finding validation for their own journeys when they read it. I discovered that questions are an excellent way to grow because questions are an excellent way to introduce even the…

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"Stiff Necked" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

The system needs to change, not just people!

I posted these thoughts in my online community The Lasting Supper yesterday. I’m interested not only in how people change, but systems. It’s nearly impossible for people to change. It seems impossible for systems to change. Here, I’m talking about the system we call the Church. In the Bible, “stiff…

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"Be the Change!" (cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward)

the #1 ingredient for changing the world

This small coin is preaching to the choir. It’s more like a pep talk. They already are the change. Just by being… change! You want to know the number one ingredient for changing the world? It’s you! I believe in the urgency of change. I agree that we must be…

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i'm changing cartoon by nakedpastor david hayward

it’s me i’m changing

You can get a really nice reproduction of this drawing in my store. Everything around us resists our transformation. Sure, we are encouraged to conform and adapt and tweak in order to keep up with the expectations and opinions of others. But true transformation? No. This stretches everybody, including ourselves.…

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changing in spite of resistance

The resistance to change is enormous and manifold. It comes from all kinds of directions: family, friends, peers, life, even our own hearts. It requires an incredible amount of decision and courage, especially when we know change is urgent. Perhaps it is coming out in whatever way… sexually or theologically.…

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