"The Expectations of Others" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

Your Cage is the Expectations of Others

OWN THIS PRINT The CruciFiction: He started receiving the bars for his cage at a very, very early age, each one given with love and concern forged with dreams and expectations. He took them all because we all do. Later he understood why. He was told that like all healthy…

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"Expectations" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

Your Growth Must Lead to Your Freedom

Probably the best book on marriage is David Schnarch’s, Passionate Marriage (a must read). Here’s just one quote: “Crucibles are always interlocking. When one partner goes into his crucible, the other partner goes into hers– or gets out of the marriage.” What this means… and I’ve seen it over and over again……

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"Unspoken Rules" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

It’s the unspoken rules and expectations that really get you!

OWN A PRINT OF THIS CARTOON! There are the explicit rules and expectations. We’re usually okay with those. We can sign up or not because the choices and consequences are pretty clear. It’s the unspoken rules and expectations that really get you. It takes a while to learn where the…

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"Hoop Jumper" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

Do you have to jump through hoops?

First, you have to jump through hoops to get in. Then you have to jump through hoops to stay. Finally, you have to jump through hoops to get out. I retired my hoop jumping career. CAN I HELP YOU? CLICK HERE!

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"Rules and Expectations" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

10 silent rules and expectations that finally get you in the end!

You can ask benign questions as long as you never disagree with the pastor. When you’re given advice, they’re actually instructions. If you are encouraged to confess your sins, it’s really information gathering. The invitation to repent is actually a command to accept the blame. Meetings at the church aren’t optional.…

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"Expectations" cartoon by nakedpastor David Hayward

your freedom versus the expectations of others

ALL MY ART is 50% OFF this weekend ONLY. Use coupon code ‘sweet’ at checkout! SHOP NOW! You can even get this cartoon, “Expectations”, with this deal HERE. Very simple: when you determine to be yourself, to be free, you are going to disappoint, upset, and offend others. Count on…

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