Have You Experienced a Controlling Leader?

I've experienced many controlling church leaders. It’s one of the clearest signs of a controlling church, and unfortunately, pastors can often be the worst offenders. They have a way of using their spiritual authority to dominate and manipulate, making it seem like they’re doing it for your own good.

I hated it. And, I hate to say it, but it's true: pastors can be the worst!

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At first, I was so enchanted by them that I didn't mind because I didn’t see it. "Enchanted" is the key word because it was like I was spellbound and even captivated. But when the veil was pulled back for some reason, then I realized I had sacrificed myself on the altar of their power. It was a painful revelation, one that left me feeling betrayed and disillusioned by the very people I trusted most.

When I was naive enough to think I could address the issue, that's when things always went south. Fast! But in the end it was better for me.

I bet you have a story like this.
Many do.

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