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deconstruction -

Description: A mom and dad are with their son. She says, “Honey, daddy and I are questioning our beliefs.” He responds, “Well, it’s about time!” DECONSTRUCTING AND YOUR KIDS I’m asked how we deconstructed in front of our kids. Deconstruction isn’t an event. It’s a lifestyle.  It’s living a life committed to constantly questioning and dismantling our conditioning. So our kids never witnessed us freaking out about beliefs. Instead, what they saw, and still see, are adults committed to growth. They saw people curious about what was true and fearless to pursue it. They watched us develop, progress, and grow....

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LGBT, LGBTQ+ -

Description: A flock of sheep say to an LGBTQIA+ rainbow sheep, "I would come out and support you publicly but I've got all these other relationships to consider!" Please please please find the courage to come out publicly in support of your LGBTQIA+ friends. It's needed. How many LGBTQIA+ people here know what I'm talking about?

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abuse -

Description: A woman says to a man, “Look! When I tell you my story of spiritual abuse and you say ‘not all churches’ or ‘not all pastors’ it shows you care more about them than you do the people they hurt!” SPIRITUAL ABUSE: NEVER SAY NOT ALL CHURCHES I was an official in a system called the Church that is guilty of systemic evil in the form of spiritual abuse. I have also suffered a lot of spiritual abuse.  I have also helped a lot of people heal from it. I also keep abreast of the limitless stories surfacing about...

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Description: A woman is being stretched by ropes between the church saying she’ll never be good enough and the other church saying that she’s better than people outside the church. WERE YOU TAUGHT YOU WILL NEVER BE GOOD ENOUGH? I’m sure not everyone experienced this, but I did. And I know many of you have too. We were taught that we would never be good enough. Ever! We were told that we were helpless sinners, depraved, and that our hearts were wicked, and that would never change. But on the other hand we were taught that we were better than...

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relationships -

Description: A woman stands between two men. One man says, “Pick me! I might be an asshole but at least I’m a believer!” The other says, “I may not be a believer but I promise to treat you right and spend the rest of my life learning how to love you.” She looks endearingly towards the guy on the right. FALLING IN LOVE WITH A BELIEVER OR A NON-BELIEVER I’ve helped many believers who love a non-believer follow through and get married. They’re happy. Love is greater than faith. I would rather my kids be loved by someone who made...

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